Don’t Just Quit Porn.
Become Whole.
A 5-month, gospel-centered journey to sexual wholeness—wrapped inside a mentorship community that helps you become theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, and able to love others well.
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If Willpower Worked… You Wouldn’t Still Be Stuck.
You’ve tried to stop.
You promised “never again.”
You deleted apps.
You confessed.
You memorized verses.
And yet…
- You still find yourself going back to porn and other unwanted sexual behaviors when you’re stressed, lonely, or ashamed.
- You feel like two people—one who loves Jesus, one who sabotages everything.
- You’re tired of trying to be better disciplined and pretending you’re okay.
Deep down, you’re not just asking, “How do I stop watching porn?”
You’re asking,“Is real healing even possible for someone like me?”
If at anytime you don't feel that you're getting your money's worth, ask for a refund and I'll send it to you. No questions asked.
Most Christian approaches focus on behavior.
Helpful? Sometimes.
But they rarely deal with:
Porn isn’t just a moral failure. It’s often a maladaptive strategy for managing pain.
If the problem is deeper than willpower, you need more than willpower to heal.
The Live Free Course is a 10-lesson, gospel-centered Journey that helps you:
It’s built around honesty, attachment, and the gospel.
Not shame. Not quick fixes.
But I didn’t want this to be “just another course.”
So I created something more.
The Live Free Mentorship is a 5-month journey where you don’t walk alone.
You get the full Live Free Course plus a relational, guided space to process what you’re learning and actually integrate it into your life.
Not only do you get:
The Live Free Course
(10 full-length teaching videos)
– $250 value
10 Discussion Guides
to help you process and apply
– $50 value
Participant's Guidebook
(downloadable/printable)
– $25 value
the Live Free Book
your very own hardcopy
- $17 value
The resources dashboard
with curated tools for healing
– $120 value
“How Eroticism Can Heal Your Soul from Unwanted Sexual Expression”
– $10 value
Which is a $472 course value by itself.
But with the Live Free Mentorship Community, you also get:
Group Mentoring
12 Monthly group mentorship calls with teaching + live support
– we create a strategic plan for your ongoing growth
– $1,500 value
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Personal Support
One-on-one email support from me as you journey
– ask questions, process setbacks, get encouragement
– $2,100 value
Continual Growth
One-year enrollment in the Formation Circle of Unfeigned Christianity
– content and conversations to help you grow theologically, emotionally, and missionally
– $360 value
Add it up and you’re looking at $4,432 of value.
Your cost?
Just $30/month for five months
or $288/year with the annual plan (a 20% savings).
Join the Live Free Mentorship Community
If at anytime you don't feel that you're getting your money's worth, ask for a refund and I'll send it to you. No questions asked.
About The Live Free Course
Who's this for?
The Live Free Mentorship is for you if:
If you’re looking for shame, quick fixes, or spiritual hype…
this isn’t it.
If you’re ready for honest, Jesus-centered, emotionally aware discipleship…
you’re in the right place.
you can start your mentorship journey today
If at anytime you don't feel that you're getting your money's worth, ask for a refund and I'll send it to you. No questions asked.
You'll learn:
01.
Why porn is often more about pain and self-protection than “just lust”
02.
How your story, family system, and attachment wounds shape your desires
03.
Why your brain keeps going back to old patterns—and how neuroplasticity gives hope for real change
04.
How to recognize your Exile, Manager, and Firefighter parts and invite Jesus to meet each with compassion and truth
05.
How to move from shame and hiding to confession, connection, and secure attachment
06.
How to build a long-term plan for sexual wholeness that’s rooted in the Gospel of Jesus, not in your performance
Endorsements
“Though often seen by many of us as curse rather than gift, as shackles rather than wings, Asher helps us to see the blessing and freedom of finding victory in God’s design.”
Don Showalter
Hearts Alive! Ministries
"I wish I would have had this kind of honesty from someone when I was young. Asher’s work has the potential of empowering a lot of young men.”
Val Yoder
Kitchi Pines Church
“The freedom you will experience from taking these truths to heart yourself will be all the evidence you need to convince others of Christ.”
Ernest Witmer
Stories Made New
Maybe you’re not ready for mentorship yet.
You can still get the full Live Free Course—all 10 sessions, resources, and guides—for a one-time payment of $200 and go at your own pace.
You’ll miss out on:
- live group mentorship calls
- ongoing email support
- the Formation Circle membership
…but if you’re more of a DIY learner, this is a solid place to start.
Ready to stop white-knuckling and start healing?
If at anytime you don't feel that you're getting your money's worth, ask for a refund and I'll send it to you. No questions asked.
Frequently Asked Questions about the
Live Free Mentorship Community
A: The course was originally created with men in mind, but the principles apply broadly to anyone wrestling with porn or unwanted sexual behavior. The mentorship environment is grace-filled and honest, and we’ll communicate clearly about who each specific cohort is designed for.
A: No. This is not a magic pill. It’s a structured, gospel-centered process that helps you understand your story, your brain, and your heart—and invites Jesus and community into the very places porn has been medicating.
A: Absolutely. If you still care, if you still feel the tension, it means your heart is alive. This journey is designed with relapse, shame, and exhaustion in mind. We’re not looking for a flawless record. We’re looking for connection, honesty, and movement toward wholeness.
A: The teaching portion is recorded so you can watch later. You’ll still be able to email me, interact with the resources, and continue your journey at a sustainable pace.
About Asher Witmer
I live with my wife and five kids in Central Colorado where we serve with our church, Skyline Mennonite, and are in the middle of obtaining a Bachelor’s of Advanced Biblical & Cultural Exegesis degree from Eternity Bible College.
Through Unfeigned Christianity, I create resources that help Christians become theologically anchored and emotionally healthy so they can love others well. You can learn more about me, my work, and my writing by visiting www.asherwitmer.com.
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Reader reviews
Asher doesn’t push any formulas for success, rather he gets to the root of the why. Why do I turn to masturbation and porn? He shares personal stories of times that he’s failed. Stories that show his thought process precisely—and are relatable to me. These stories helped me not feel alone in my struggles. This book brings HOPE to people who may have given up on ever finding victory over lust.
Marques Knepp
I enjoyed reading this book because it's written from a very honest down to earth basis, not some lofty pie in the sky. I highly recommend this book.