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Why We Lie to Our Friends about How We’re Really Doing

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation

Today, we’re looking at chapter 3 of Live Free, “Why We Lie to Our Friends about How We’re Really Doing.”

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“Am I the Only One?”

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation

We’re on to chapter 2 of Live Free where we wrestle through the question we may face, “Am I the only one who struggles with lust?”

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The Day Every Man Wishes He Could Undo

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation

Here we go! The review of Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality begins with chapter one, The Day Every Man Wishes He Could Undo.

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Live Free: a Review of My Own Book

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation

It’s been four years since I published Live Free and there are already a few things I’d say differently. In this episode, I share what those things are. 

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When Should I Talk with My Children about Sex?

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation
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Many guys got into sex before ever been told about sexuality and how their body works. This is why I already talk with my children about sex.

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How Should Christians Think about Same-Sex Attraction? (w/ Abram Martin & Darnell Rohrer)

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation

Is same-sex attraction lust? What causes someone to be same-sex attraction? Will I cause someone who is same-sex attracted to struggle with lust if I get too close with them?

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Faith, Ministry, and Sexuality: What an Unlikely Friendship Taught Me about Them (w/ Luci Kinsinger)

By Asher Witmer Relationships

My friend, Luci, joins me to talk about her recent book, Turtle Heart. Luci writes about a friendship she developed with an older Ojibwe lady, Charlene. Char taught her a lot about faith, ministry, and sexuality.

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A Man’s Sexual Needs Are Not Reasons for a Wife to Continue in Abuse (Submission and Respect pt. 3)

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation

When Paul tells couples to give their spouses their sexual rights in 1 Corinthians 7 he is not talking about enduring abusive behavior.

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How My Past Porn Addiction Impacted My Marriage

By Asher Witmer Relationships

A daughter or friend is currently dating someone who has confessed to struggling with porn, and you are seeking wisdom in how to counsel her.

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How to Find Sexual Freedom

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation

You don’t have to be another statistic, proving everybody struggles with moral failure. You can live sexually free.

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Why Sexual Freedom Matters

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation

You deserve to live in sexual freedom; not bondage. You deserve to experience life and joy, not guilt and shame.

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How Jesus Redeems a Life of Abuse

By Asher Witmer Spiritual Formation

“When I came to the part about father wounds the dam just broke and I cried and cried and was now finally starting to understand what was the driving force behind my sexual desires.”

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Living with Guilt Is a Choice.

Author Asher Witmer knows what it’s like to want freedom from sexual sin only to continually fail. We’re often told we need more personal discipline, that we need to think godly things instead of fleshly things.

What if I told you that discipline won’t solve your problem with lust?

Our male sexuality is given by God for advancing beauty and goodness. But somewhere along the line it becomes something that causes devastation and guilt. The good news is we don’t have to live with guilt. In Live Free, Asher Witmer shows us how we can find freedom from sexual sin, live with nothing to hide, and be able to fight for others.

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