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Continuing our review of The Great Sex Rescue, we’re going to look at libido, sexless marriages, and sex as a transaction (i.e. “duty sex”).
I’ve noticed a few common threads among books giving advice that hinders healthy sexual intimacy:
1. They tend to talk about sex from the male perspective.
2. They present the male sex drive as the only one that matters in the occasion.
3. They suggest that giving husbands good sex is the main way of keeping them free from sexual immorality.
4. They reduce sex to intercourse. (Spoiler: it’s so much more than just having intercourse.)
5. They perpetuate the obligation-sex narrative.
While each of these books has some good things to say, the underlying messages of what they say about sex seem to promote unhealthy sexual intimacy.
Let me answer this question by making three observations and then drawing three conclusions about how to handle theological differences in church.
In this week’s episode, I was privileged to be joined by Rebekah Mui and Dru Lattin to discuss power, gender, and roles.
Continuing our review of the Great Sex Rescue, we look at ways husbands sometimes use their wives and refuse to let them say “no” to sex.
I’m honored to be joined by Dylo Cadet to discuss his recent book, In the Name of “Mission Work,” and the abuse he experienced at the hands of Christian Aid Ministries worker Jeriah Mast.
In this video, I discuss the first three chapters that address some of the lies Christians have been taught about sex.
Most people want to be liked by others, and that desire to be liked leads us to put on a smile or have a friendly conversation.
There has been a lot of commentary around the Asbury revival. What are we to make of it all? What are we to make of Asbury? What are we to make of revivals?
If we’re going to understand each other, we need to understand that everyone works from a particular context and we need to filter the information they’re dumping on us from their context.
Author Asher Witmer knows what it’s like to want freedom from sexual sin only to continually fail. We’re often told we need more personal discipline, that we need to think godly things instead of fleshly things.
What if I told you that discipline won’t solve your problem with lust?
Our male sexuality is given by God for advancing beauty and goodness. But somewhere along the line it becomes something that causes devastation and guilt. The good news is we don’t have to live with guilt. In Live Free, Asher Witmer shows us how we can find freedom from sexual sin, live with nothing to hide, and be able to fight for others.
